Today’s feature is a story about overcoming abuse in a strict, religious family. In this story, K. Long discusses the many ways she tried to heal from what happened, from therapy to reading to journaling. What finally helped her begin the healing process was meeting other survivors and begin to share her story. She shares her story with all of you here as she continues in the process of healing and survival. Read K. Long’s story.
Today’s feature is a poem by Laura Connett about some of the challenges of leaving an abusive situation. She delves into the mental games that romantic partners can play to exert their authority and power. She also describes the courage that it takes to leave. Read Laura’s poem here.
I just received this submission from Jwahir and I found the poem incredibly touching. I am proud to share it with you here. Take a moment to read it and leave your comments! Also, we have featured a different story or poem every day this month, so make sure to check out the Stories and Poetry pages. And if you haven’t had a chance to read the e-journal yet, check it out here! Alright, now back to our feature. Check out Jwahir’s poem here.
In this poem, an anonymous women’s resource center client in Traverse City, MI gives a voice to her feelings. She also explores the idea of validation, something that we don’t realize is often times lost after a sexual assault. Although it appears her validation came after a startling life event, it is with great hope that her journey to recovery was assisted by these feelings.
Read Fears and Tears.
Almost like a mantra, Shana’s poem inspires us to take charge of our own healing with courage and conviction. I can imagine repeating these words to myself to help get me through some of the tough times when it seems like it’s never getting any better. This poem reminds us to keep our heads up and stay strong. That we have already survived and will continue to survive. Read Shana’s poem here.
In this incredibly inspiring story, Tonia describes how poetry helped her survive 4 years of sexual abuse. Tonia begins with a poem that she wrote as a teenager, shares her story, and then closes with a poem written much later in her healing journey. Tonia describes why she shares her story – to help others find the courage to find their voice. She speaks to the power of our community as sexual violence survivors. She writes, “We should feel no shame; this was done to us, not by us. My hope is to reach and inspire others with stories like mine and to let them know that they are not alone. We are all in this together; it is not just my story, it is our story. Together we can make a difference!” Read Tonia’s story here.
In this brave account of the childhood sexual abuse she survived, Kylee shares her story of strength and hope. She shares her story in the hope that others may find inspiration in her words. She wants to let other girls and boys who have survived sexual abuse or who are currently surviving sexual violence know that they are not alone. Thank you Kylee for your courage in telling this story. Read Kylee’s story here.
In this eloquently written discussion of the healing process, Bonita touches on some important points about surviving sexual violence. She discusses the important role we play in our own healing process, that we have to be ready to embark on this journey for it to truly be successful. Her words really hit home with me, and I hope that you will find them inspiring as well.
She writes, “When the desire and willingness is there, the healing process takes on a journey exclusive to the individual. Everyone’s journey is different from everyone else’s and yet there are a few steps that may be similar for everyone. Besides desire and willingness, one of these steps is one of the most important. It may be a large step, a small step, or many of both. This step was very difficult for me. It is to realize that the event that took place was an event. It is not you. It was something that happened to you, but it does not make who you are. You are you, no matter what happens to you in your life. You choose who you are in spite of your surroundings and circumstances.” Read the rest of Bonita’s story here.